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31
Oct
10

Rally to Restore Sanity

Marches, protests and rallies make me happy to live in DC. I was VERY excited to meet “the bill” I learned all about from School House Rock as a kid, walking along just a few blocks from Capitol Hill! This was the highlight of my day. Glad he wasn’t stuck in committee and got out to enjoy some sunshine at the Rally for Sanity.

29
Oct
10

End of October

I survived an abusive relationship. There is no poetic way to say it. Some of the things I experienced at the hands of this man are unspeakable. I wrote a brief piece about it for the Ms. Magazine blog. This is the first time I’ve ever been nervous about something I’ve written being published. I couldn’t sleep last night, thinking about my abusive ex-boyfriend and his friends possibly reading my piece. Today I am certain that putting myself out there like this was the right thing to do. If my words help even one person to question their relationship or feel braver about making a change, the risk was worth it. Writing is an act of faith. I must trust that others will either relate to my story or support my decision to speak up. Aside from that, I am thrilled beyond belief to contribute to a magazine I’ve admired for years.

14
Oct
10

My Tribe of Scribes

“A man that hath friends must show himself friendly: and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother.” -Proverbs 18:24

To me , my writer-friends are my family, my tribe, the ones with whom I share the greatest joys and pain, the ones I know have the same heartbreaks and highs. On a super-secret mission to Los Angeles with Swedish journalist-friend Majsan Bostrom I reconnected with some of my lost tribe: fabulous feminist author/political scientist Shira Tarrant always keeps my cerebellum on its toes, so-to-speak; old friend poet/performance artist/reluctant self-help guru Bucky Sinister happened to be in the area, offering me a blast from the past; went hiking with Cherry Vanilla and got a signed copy of her delicious soon-to-be-released page-turner (Lick Me); had a quick convo and punk pop tart with fellow practitioner of the “spooky art” Clint Catalyst; swung by old-friend-since-high-school/singer & lyricist of H2O Toby Morse‘s house; rapped with new poet-friend A. Razor for a few; laughed my culo off & got my Real Food Daily on with online pen-pal and award-winning writer Michele Serros (as Dave Navarro looked on, longingly); swung by graffiti impresario Roger Gastman‘s office… Sorry, am I name-dropping? Only because these are the people who lift me up. Now back to work on my screenplay, new book, reality show treatment, seenallover.com column, publishing company and grading papers. Thanks for the inspiration!

26
Sep
10

Baltimore Loves Books

Writing and editing a book is a solitary process (even with a co-editor) but I found touring to be an even lonelier one. I was always wishing I were in a band, with three or four friends on stage with me to take away the weighty stares of those hungry, expectant eyes. The beauty of an anthology is the collective experience–seeing a subject from many different angles, hearing about it from a variety of voices. My experience with group readings has always been extremely positive; this one we just did for Robot Hearts at the Baltimore Book Festival was no different. Hearing writers read their own words, interacting with audience members and meeting other lovers of the written word always inspires me. Thank you, Baltimore!

17
Sep
10

What’s new, Baltimore?

Heading to Balmer this weekend for the dedication of a Frank Zappa bust made by Lithuanian artists; heading there next weekend due to my own dedication to the written word. My co-editor/co-pilot Cara Bruce and I will be reading with and presenting some regional contributors from our Robot Hearts anthology at the Baltimore Book Festival on Friday, September 24th. They’ve made this snazzy flyer for the show and it looks like we’re in good company–Nigel Barker of America’s Next Top Model fame! I’ve always loved this festival, especially the Radical Bookfair part. Looking forward to some vegan treats from Red Emma’s and saying hello to friends at Atomic Books. Stay crusty, Baltimore.

27
Aug
10

School’s Back in Session

Seems like just yesterday I was singing “School’s out for the summer.” I shouldn’t complain, really. I had 3 weeks on the road writing stories, kayaking in Tennessee, biking the Virginia Creeper Trail, sweating at Star Wars Celebration V in Orlando, playing in the waves of Sunset Beach in North Carolina. My students are getting a happy and refreshed professor, which is important. Sometimes friends or family members try to make me feel bad; sometimes I can feel sorry for myself–I drive an old beat-up car, I don’t make megabucks that those with cushy jobs seem to make, I am not a NY Times bestselling writer, etc etc. But that’s focusing on the negative. In reality, I have more than I can list here: a loving husband, rewarding career, & friends all over the world, just to name a few. I have an amazing life. Now I’ve just gotta get that syllabus done!

20
Aug
10

Star Wars Celebration V

I’ve been on the road…after readings in Los Angeles, went bike-riding in the Smoky Mountains, traveled to Orlando for Star Wars Celebration V (read my story about it here), worked on my house in coastal North Carolina. School starts soon so I’ll be back in teaching mode. Thought I’d share some photo outtakes from the Star Wars story.

25
Jul
10

Still in Hollywood

Fresh off the plane, jet-lagged yet fueled by fun & friendship found in my old LA stomping grounds. Sold some books & had a blast at Hustler Hollywood and Laguna Beach Books. Writers need one another. This is proven to me time and time again. Thank you.

20
Jul
10

Heading West

Packing and typing as fast as I can, heading to Los Angeles with Cara Bruce to present Robot Hearts at Hustler Hollywood on Thursday and Laguna Beach Books on Friday. Can’t wait to meet many of the contributors for the first time! Some of my online UCLA students are supposed to show. I’ve got plans to lunch with journalist Tiffanie Gabrielse in Boston on my 5-hour (!) layover en route. Plans to lunch with some reality show peeps once there. Plans to see and hug as many old friends as possible, including Jillian Lauren, who we are opening for in LB, Clint Catalyst (pictured here with Pleasant Gehman and Iris Berry, from LAST time we read at Hustler), magazine guru Roger Gastman, and RH contributor/mentor/feminista fabulosa Shira Tarrant, among many others. Oh yeah, and my husband needs to borrow a small amp for our reading (he’s proving the music with Low Victor Echo). Help? Who shows up or what happens in LA is always a hoot. Surprise me!

05
Jul
10

Happy Birthday, America! Love, DC

Biked with my husband down to the National Mall for fireworks yesterday. Headed out around 2 pm, took our time. Stopped and bought bottled water from a guy on the corner, selling them to cars from an ice-filled cooler. We complimented him on what a good idea it was on such a hot day, and he explained how he buys a case for $4 and sells them off for $1 each: “That’s the net. That’s the net,” he said, total DC-style, the way I remember people talking here. Then he told us a story about a couple of younger guys “trying to strong-arm” him from an opposite corner the previous day.

Further down the road we stopped at a friend’s house near Eastern Market, where she offered us lime-water, sunscreen, and a few more laughs to take on our way. Hit up the last standing Burrito Brothers on Capital Hill, and friends we were meeting called to say they were in Columbia Heights, we asked them to pick up some Cowvin cookies from Sticky Fingers, to eat during the fireworks. Finally made it to the Mall, and after checkpoint Charlie (wow, security has gotten strict since 9/11 and since we moved away in 95), hung with old friends and scenesters near the 41st Annual Smoke-In stage (we don’t smoke but don’t mind those that do). We reminisced about when it was actually called “Rock Against Reagan.”

Pulled up a piece of warm cement by the Reflecting Pool to watch the fireworks by 9. I’ve never been a big fireworks fan, but DC always does ‘em right. Plus there’s something so peaceful about the minutes after they start, when all of the tens of thousands of us are quietly watching, faces glowing upward toward the sizzling sky. Just the mish-mash of people sitting around us called to mind this Inga Muscio piece I love. The mixture of people and general tolerance of one another is the main thing I miss when I travel out-of-country. Trust me, I have lots of criticism of the US, but here is one thing we do right most of the time.

Later rode bikes to Busboys & Poets at 5th & K Sts, right by the boarded-up shell of the Safari Club, a place where I once booked Saturday matinee punk shows. Lost track of time with a friend from Northern Virginia, so walked around with him until he could get a cab. We rode home freely through streets usually filled with cars, past dressed-up drunk people stumbling out of bars, and by that McDonald’s where people were killed years ago, over trashed sidewalks, and through neighborhoods still setting off firecrackers. Last year we rode by a huge Michael Jackson dance party, held in alley. We were sticky and stanky by the time we got home early this morning. You have not really seen DC until you’ve seen it by bike at 2 am.




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