Seems like just yesterday I was singing “School’s out for the summer.” I shouldn’t complain, really. I had 3 weeks on the road writing stories, kayaking in Tennessee, biking the Virginia Creeper Trail, sweating at Star Wars Celebration V in Orlando, playing in the waves of Sunset Beach in North Carolina. My students are getting a happy and refreshed professor, which is important. Sometimes friends or family members try to make me feel bad; sometimes I can feel sorry for myself–I drive an old beat-up car, I don’t make megabucks that those with cushy jobs seem to make, I am not a NY Times bestselling writer, etc etc. But that’s focusing on the negative. In reality, I have more than I can list here: a loving husband, rewarding career, & friends all over the world, just to name a few. I have an amazing life. Now I’ve just gotta get that syllabus done!
School’s Back in Session
Star Wars Celebration V
I’ve been on the road…after readings in Los Angeles, went bike-riding in the Smoky Mountains, traveled to Orlando for Star Wars Celebration V (read my story about it here), worked on my house in coastal North Carolina. School starts soon so I’ll be back in teaching mode. Thought I’d share some photo outtakes from the Star Wars story.
Still in Hollywood
Heading West
Packing and typing as fast as I can, heading to Los Angeles with Cara Bruce to present Robot Hearts at Hustler Hollywood on Thursday and Laguna Beach Books on Friday. Can’t wait to meet many of the contributors for the first time! Some of my online UCLA students are supposed to show. I’ve got plans to lunch with journalist Tiffanie Gabrielse in Boston on my 5-hour (!) layover en route. Plans to lunch with some reality show peeps once there. Plans to see and hug as many old friends as possible, including Jillian Lauren, who we are opening for in LB, Clint Catalyst (pictured here with Pleasant Gehman and Iris Berry, from LAST time we read at Hustler), magazine guru Roger Gastman, and RH contributor/mentor/feminista fabulosa Shira Tarrant, among many others. Oh yeah, and my husband needs to borrow a small amp for our reading (he’s proving the music with Low Victor Echo). Help? Who shows up or what happens in LA is always a hoot. Surprise me!
Biked with my husband down to the National Mall for fireworks yesterday. Headed out around 2 pm, took our time. Stopped and bought bottled water from a guy on the corner, selling them to cars from an ice-filled cooler. We complimented him on what a good idea it was on such a hot day, and he explained how he buys a case for $4 and sells them off for $1 each: “That’s the net. That’s the net,” he said, total DC-style, the way I remember people talking here. Then he told us a story about a couple of younger guys “trying to strong-arm” him from an opposite corner the previous day.
Further down the road we stopped at a friend’s house near Eastern Market, where she offered us lime-water, sunscreen, and a few more laughs to take on our way. Hit up the last standing Burrito Brothers on Capital Hill, and friends we were meeting called to say they were in Columbia Heights, we asked them to pick up some Cowvin cookies from Sticky Fingers, to eat during the fireworks. Finally made it to the Mall, and after checkpoint Charlie (wow, security has gotten strict since 9/11 and since we moved away in 95), hung with old friends and scenesters near the 41st Annual Smoke-In stage (we don’t smoke but don’t mind those that do). We reminisced about when it was actually called “Rock Against Reagan.”
Pulled up a piece of warm cement by the Reflecting Pool to watch the fireworks by 9. I’ve never been a big fireworks fan, but DC always does ‘em right. Plus there’s something so peaceful about the minutes after they start, when all of the tens of thousands of us are quietly watching, faces glowing upward toward the sizzling sky. Just the mish-mash of people sitting around us called to mind this Inga Muscio piece I love. The mixture of people and general tolerance of one another is the main thing I miss when I travel out-of-country. Trust me, I have lots of criticism of the US, but here is one thing we do right most of the time.
Later rode bikes to Busboys & Poets at 5th & K Sts, right by the boarded-up shell of the Safari Club, a place where I once booked Saturday matinee punk shows. Lost track of time with a friend from Northern Virginia, so walked around with him until he could get a cab. We rode home freely through streets usually filled with cars, past dressed-up drunk people stumbling out of bars, and by that McDonald’s where people were killed years ago, over trashed sidewalks, and through neighborhoods still setting off firecrackers. Last year we rode by a huge Michael Jackson dance party, held in alley. We were sticky and stanky by the time we got home early this morning. You have not really seen DC until you’ve seen it by bike at 2 am.
SheWrites
SheWrites, a social networking site for women, celebrated their one-year anniversary last night by organizing meet-ups all over the country. I headed out by myself to the DC meeting, tired, slightly anxious, and thinking I need another social network like I need a hole in my head. Surpise: I came home with books-in-hand and knowing 3 cool local writers (writer/organizer/yoga teacher Ananda Leeke, novelist Mary L. Tabor, and journalist/soon-to-be-published memoirist Glen Finland. ) Sometimes it’s good to just get over myself and get out.
Book Trailers: Who knew?
Apparently you don’t just judge a book by its cover these days, but by its video, also known as a book trailer. Thanks to the talents of music video director Joseph Pattisall, now our Robot Hearts antho has its own. Music by Stephen Sellers of Low Victor Echo (my husband’s former band), artwork by Tony Acosta. It’s simple but captures the essence of the book, using actual text from our contributors. I can’t stop watching it. I am so lucky to be blessed with artistic friends.
Scenes from New York
My feet are soaking while spirits are soaring from a pavement-pounding whirlwind 36 hours in New York promoting Robot Hearts, a modern-love anthology I co-edited with Cara Bruce. It was a wild night at Abiola’s Kiss & Tell Reading Series, held in the bordello-like lounge of Madame X. Got to meet some of the fabulous RH contributors and check out the talents of others in the line-up, including amazing Joni-Mitchell-gone-wrong singer/songwriter comedian Jessica Delfino and Let’s Talk About Pep’s Kittie Troy. What really made my night was old friends who crawled out of the woodwork and back into my heart by making the effort to come see me while I was in their town. Note to self: red lights in graffitied bathroom mirrors make me look good. Thanks, New York!
Garden of Eating
Eden’s sits tucked away in a historic house just minutes off of Interstate 95. They have been open since 2003–no easy feat when you’re located in both North Carolina and in the hometown of Smithfield Foods, operators of the biggest slaughterhouse in the US (as featured in the film Food Inc. for their carelessness regarding human and animal rights). The food and service at Eden’s was exquisite. We had beancake, veggie BBQ “ribs,” steamed vegetables, and field peas with rice, served by the amazing Chef Alex himself. The survival of this restaurant in this state and town is just the kind of subversion that gives me hope. If you’re traveling through North Carolina, stop by and fill your belly up–you will NOT be disappointed.













